A Nigerian woman, Dorine Darlington Obi, has opened up on how life has been after the d3ath of her husband.
She shared her experience after celebrating her late husband's post-humous birthday on March 31, 2025.
Recalling when she had no business, money, or car, she advised women in a similar situation to pray because men would want to take advantage of them.
“Sometimes I am amazed by my own strength. Marriage of 2 and half years. As the sweetness just dey marinate, husband kpai. Ije uwa,” she wrote.
"What if I no dey born every year, Late Jasmine would have been my only child.
"I looked at myself, no business, no money, no landed property, no car. Nothing to begin your journey with but I have God who is enough.
"If someone told me that I would be able to afford a decent meal for my kids I wouldn't have believed. Keep your faith alive and trust God.
"It's not an easy journey but always pray and use your brain Maka men will want to chop you like banku if you keep being vulnerable and lazy.
"Don't tell me sorry ooo, I am just reminiscing Biko. Baby di oyi
percent."
by Linda Ikeji at 01/04/2025 8:39 AM
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Anonymous about 5 days ago
God is your strength. Great advice for women especially the lazy entitled ones who believe the treasure between their legs is leverage. Learn from these words of wisdom.
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Anonymous about 5 days ago
Them go first use you before you wise up
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Anonymous about 5 days ago
May the good lord continue to strengthen you.
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EL-J (TheMan) about 4 days ago
I thought women pay most bills in homes, how come, this write up.
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Anonymous about 4 days ago
My Ibo sisters and men . Can’t you guys think of something better and productive to talk about. Statistics show ibo women have the most issues with men in the whole world .. not just in Nigeria. And this is not a a joke !
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Anonymous about 4 days ago
Na true only God Almighty is your witness, God Almighty sees and hears everything including hidden,RIP TO YOUR HUSBAND
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Anonymous about 4 days ago
Dorine Udogu didn’t tell the whole story. Make peace with your husband’s family. You are too small to them.
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Anonymous about 4 days ago
See them...shameless people!!! Why did the family treat her badly. Why did the so called family abandon their brother's kids. Please hold your peace!!!
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Anonymous about 4 days ago
No woman should be comfortable at home (idle). Be ready and know how to make ends meet if things took a nosedive. Best wishes to this lady.
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Anonymous about 4 days ago
Men loves to take advantage of vulnerable women. Women should know this and wise up. Even that your men friends is waiting tio take advantage of you when vulnerable. Selfish people
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Anonymous about 4 days ago
May you find strength and joy eventually. Sorry
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Linda ikeji's baby girl for life about 4 days ago
Chai. handsome man. She said the absolute truth. The men in like just want to be sleeping with for little or nothing. Be wise
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Anonymous about 4 days ago
Such a handsome guyI wonder what happened HmmmmMay his soul continue to rest in peace Please make peace with your inlaws so you can be free
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Anonymous about 4 days ago
Stop posting someone’s late son’s pictures on social media. Get some sense. You know what you are making his parents and family to go through emotionally by posting their late son’s pictures. He was your husband for only 2years and some months , but he was his parent’s son for more than thirty years. Young men will not listen to their parents and marry right.
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Anonymous about 4 days ago
You're sick in the head! She can't post her husband's picture, husband that left his father and mother to cleave to her as the Bible says? Something is really wrong with you.
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